Rachel and Bruce became parents on March 9, 2021 as they welcomed their daughter, Eliza Mae, in a most surprising and keep-you-on-your-toes-guessing-all-the-while sort of birth. They were educated and ready, having attended my in-depth childbirth classes. And Rachel was the oldest of 8 children so she had some insight into becoming a mother. But this would be her first go. And if we know anything about birth it is that we cannot ever know for sure how it will unfold.

Rachel’s guess date of March 1 came and went and she tried to remain calm and patient. I didn’t hear from her really until she was 41 weeks and looking at an induction in a few days if labor did not happen first. She wanted any tips for starting things up and I reminded her that nothing would do it if her body wasn’t ready, and encouraged the relaxation benefit of massage and discouraged the pressure of the massage starting labor. Exercises to optimize her baby’s position were wise as was going for walks and spending time with Bruce in the final days. Labor would start if it was time and it wouldn’t if it wasn’t. And all of the trying to get it to start wouldn’t help and would actually possibly delay labor even further from all of the stress. Rachel took the advice with plans to wait.

But less than 24 hours later the text came to my phone. It was 6:55 am on March 9 and Rachel had been feeling contractions for 3-4 hours that were finally regular, just not consistent. They were mostly not too strong so I encouraged her to rest as long as possible and only do the minimum to get through them until her body required more. She had an appointment at 2:30 for an NST and ultrasound and wondered whether she should go in. Meanwhile, the plan was to do the Miles Circuit to help baby settle into position, and use comfort measures as needed. Several more hours of inconsistent and not too strong contractions, and a call to her midwife confirmed she was to report to her appointment. Turns out she was dilated 4 cm, 80-90% effaced, and her baby was in the OP position. The ob also swept her membranes in the hopes it would get her labor into a more productive pattern. Rachel returned home and her contractions quickly escalated.

Even with steady and strong contractions, Rachel attempted another round of the Miles Circuit in the hopes her baby would move from OP to OA. She had been contracting all day and was ready to meet her baby. But with contractions only 2 ½ minutes apart, lasting a minute, there was not a lot of rest time between and Rachel still wasn’t sure. I recommended she call the midwife again and possibly head back to the hospital. After an hour of contractions at that interval, they spoke with the midwife who said to head back in.

The car ride was awful, but it always is awful in labor. And since Rachel had been laboring so intently over the phone, her midwife arranged for them to go straight to a room bypassing triage. Rachel was seen to her room and climbed upon the bed for an exam. Her midwife did the exam and said, “Well you’ll be glad to know you are fully dilated.” Talk about a shock! It was about 7:15 pm and Rachel had been there a few hours earlier dilated just 4 cm!

Her nurse worked on admitting her into the system and preparing the delivery cart and everything else that needs to happen beforehand, while Rachel worked through very intense contractions all while laying for the requisite initial monitoring. Her water broke 10 minutes later at 7:27 pm and she was pushing a few minutes after that. A few minutes later Bruce texted me back to confirm I should come to the hospital. I left quickly and was there in 10 minutes but it would prove to be just a smidge too late…

Rachel was a great pusher and moved her baby quickly down to birth. The heart rate dipped too low for comfort and there was talk of maybe having to take measures to encourage a more rapid birth. Rachel wanted none of that and so instead she pushed like never before and her baby was crowning in no time. She pushed with such strength and brought her daughter into the world at 8:10 pm! She was born strong and vigorous after that initial cry, and I walked in the room one minute later to find Rachel clutching her newborn baby girl and trying to catch her breath. She was happy and relieved, I could tell that even from behind her mask. (Yes, she wore her mask while pushing. Amazing.) Eliza weighed 7 lb. 15 oz. and measured a lanky 22.5 in. long.

It was remarkable how much her labor changed in so short a time, bringing Rachel from 4 cm to birthed in just under 3 hours. But make no mistake, shorter is not easier. Not in childbirth. Rachel was a champion at stepping up to the task as her contractions ratcheted higher. And we’ll never know how Eliza managed to rotate in the end after being persistently OP, (Rachel’s erratic and slow to progress labor had OP written all over them), but we suspect Rachel’s diligence with the Miles Circuit had something to do with it. Or maybe it was the membrane sweep that intensified the contractions right when Rachel (and Eliza) needed it most. Perhaps it was the feeling and listening to her body that helped Rachel welcome Eliza far more than the knowing and doing that had led her up to that point. All of the red raspberry tea, pineapple, eggplant, spicy food, dates, etc in the world won’t coax out a baby who simply isn’t ready. It was patience and diligence that made all the difference. Congratulations on the surprising and wonderful birth of Eliza Mae! You rode the waves of your labor like a pro.

The Birth of Eliza Mae 3/9/21